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Let me start this by telling you that I am not a medical or mental health professional. I’m just a girl who has struggled with anxiety and panic for as long as I can remember. Over the years, I have learned and used the following coping skills to lessen the frequency and severity of my anxious episodes. I truly hope these tips will help you if you struggle as well.
Don’t fight it
When you feel an anxiety or panic coming on, your immediate reaction will be to fight the feeling. Don’t. Instead, accept it. If you allow yourself to “roll” with the feelings, they become less scary. You can also repeat a positive affirmation at this time – like, “It’s only anxiety. It can’t hurt me.”
Stay positive
This one can be easier said than done. It takes a lot of self-awareness and practice. A single negative thought can have a snowball effect. Be mindful of what you are saying to yourself throughout the day. If you catch yourself thinking negatively, turn it into a positive.
For example, if you wake up and think, “I don’t even want to get out of bed. I hate Mondays.” Change it to, “Mondays can be rough, but I will get through it. I am strong and in control.”
You will be surprised at how changing your thinking can have such a positive impact on your mental health.
Get busy
Don’t lay in bed and dwell on your feelings. Get up and clean out a closet. Go for a walk. Anything you can do to distract yourself and occupy your mind will help to lessen your anxious feelings.
Listening to some upbeat music can also be a great distraction and get you moving as well.
Practice muscle tension and relaxation
This practice helps to calm your entire body and your mind. Lay down on your back in bed or another comfy spot. Make sure you are alone and the room is free of distractions.
Starting with your head and neck, and moving the whole way down to your feet, one-by-one tense your muscles for a few seconds and then relax them. Your mind will focus on the physical feelings and lessen your anxiety.
Try deep breathing
This is so helpful when you feel a panic attack coming on. Lying on your back, place one hand on your chest. Place your other hand on your abdomen right below your belly button. Inhale deeply for 2 seconds, then exhale slowly for 4 seconds. Repeat as needed.
Pay attention to your diet
You might notice that you feel more anxious on days when you consume a lot of caffeine or sugar. Or maybe you skipped breakfast and feel funny. Eating right and cutting down on caffeine and sugar will help to keep your nervous system running smoothly.
It is also super important to remember to drink lots of water. Dehydration can cause cause anxious feelings as well.
Talk to a friend or loved one
It can definitely help to discuss your feelings with someone you trust. Even if they do not totally understand what you’re going through, just knowing you are not alone can make all the difference. Love and support is what you need and deserve.
In conclusion
I hope these coping practices work for you. Some of them may come easier than others, but they are all worth a try. With practice, you can master them and gain control of your feelings.
Let me know if you’ve used any of these techniques before and please share any others that are not on my list.
Sending calm vibes,
Great post 😁
Thank you so much. 😊
Deep breathing the simple on we always forget about!
Yes, it sounds a little silly, but really does help!
These are all really helpful tips. I am going to pin your post on my stress and anxiety board on Pinterest.
Thank you. I am so glad you find them helpful. Thanks for pinning as well!
Number 1 is so hard for me. I have been doing better lately though. Meditation even for a few minutes seems to help too. Thanks for this important post!
I agree, the first one is hard to master. It gets easier with time. Thanks for suggesting meditation. I have never tried it, but would love to! Thanks for reading!
These are such great tips! Sometimes the most simple ones like deep breathing can be the most effective. I also find that not fighting it and trying to focus on the positives can really help. I’m definitely going to refer back to this post when I need to remind myself of these!x
Thanks for reading! I’m so glad you find them helpful. It’s kind of a process until you figure out which methods work best for you.
I literally just scheduled a blog about my recent anxiety confirmation from my doctor. Thank you for these tips!
I hope these tips are helpful to you on your journey. I wish you all the best. I am definitely interested in checking out your blog as well. Thanks for stopping by!
I’ve found exercise to be incredibly helpful too!
Yes, that’s a great one! Exercise is definitely good for the mind, not just the body. Thank you for stopping by and sharing!
It’s good to have a reminder that these methods are useful. Thank you!
Thanks so much for stopping by!
These are great tips! As someone who suffers from anxiety, the greatest piece of advice I received was not to fight my panic attacks. This has helped me tremendously! Thank you for sharing this with me.
And not fighting it seems so unnatural at first. It’s a process that takes practice and mindfulness for sure.
Thank you so much for sharing this. I had my first and only panic attack earlier last summer and it was the absolute worst feeling in the world. These are great tips!
xoxox
Amanda – Activated Living
I definitely needed this! I post a lot about mental health and yet I never follow my own advice. Thank you. Followed your blog as well!
Amber x | https://unequivocallyamber.wordpress.com/
I personally believe so, so highly in the power of our breath to better manage anxiety. I practice 4-7-8 breathing everyday, a few times a day, and it becomes very apparent when I haven’t bothered to do it; I’m a big ball of nerves!
Thank you for sharing these wonderful tips with us 😀
– Nyxie
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